Speech acts: Compliments

Compliments are expressions of positive evaluation that commonly occur in everyday conversational encounters among interlocutors of equal or higher status. A compliment may be used to open a conversation or to smooth conversational interaction by reinforcing the links of solidarity between the interlocutors. People often compliment qualities related to personal appearance (e.g., clothes, hair), possessions, skill, or accomplishments.

Complimenting in English

Complimenting in Spanish

Cross-cultural differences and compliment responses

Responses - fishing for compliments

Responses - speakers in Spain

Responses - speakers in Juárez, Chihuahua, Mexico

Practice - Complimenting and Responding to a Compliment

In varieties of English such as American (Wolfson, 1988; Manes & Wolfson, 1981, 1983) and New Zealand (Holmes & Brown, 1987), research has shown that compliments are formulaic in terms of both their meaning and forms used to compliment other people. For example, with regard to their meaning, compliments are mainly realized by means of adjectives and verbs. In American English, the majority (approximately two thirds) are compliments realized by means of five adjectives: nice, good, beautiful, pretty, and great. And the majority are realized through the combination of two verbs (approximately 90%) such as like and love.

With respect to their form, almost 80% of the compliments are realized in three patterns given and received by middle-class speakers of American English; of these, the first one seems to be the most common structure chosen by U.S. Americans:

With regard to gender differences, females tend to give and receive more compliments to and from other females and males, while males tend to give more compliments to women (overall appearance) and, to a lesser degree, to other males. to top

Complimenting in Spanish

Compliments in Spanish are also mainly realized by formulas by means of a restricted selection of adjectives and verbs (Lorenzo-Dus 2001; Nelson and Hall 1999; Yañez 1990). Compliments in Spanish are often related to appearance, skill/work, and personality traits.

The most frequent adjectives used to compliment in Spanish are:

Cross-cultural differences and compliment responses

With regard to cultural difference s, Spanish-speaking men (mainly Mexican) rarely compliment one another on appearance, whereas American men do but less often than American females. to top

Compliment responses - Fishing for further compliments

In some regions of the Spanish-speaking world (e.g., Mexico , Spain , Venezuela ) it is common to 'fish for compliments' making the possession being praised downgraded in search for additional compliments. For example, in analysis of compliment responses in Peninsular Spanish it was found that requesting a repetition or an expansion of the compliment was a common strategy used among Spaniards (Lorenzo-Dus, 2001). A similar behavior of compliment responses is observed among Mexican speakers ( Chihuahua, Mexico ) (Valdés & Pino, 1981) who also like to 'fish for compliments' as a way to express affiliation with the interlocutor and to strengthen the links of solidarity. to top

Compliment responses from speakers in Spain (from Lorenzo-Dus, 2001: 119):

Compliment responses from speakers in Juárez, Chihuahua, Mexico (Valdés & Pino, 1981:59)

Overall, when complimenting someone's cooking (e.g., 'la pasta está deliciosa!' the pasta is delicious ) or a car ('es una joyita!' it's a jewel !), the person receiving the praise may respond may avoid self-praise '¿de veras?' ( really? ) or '¿no tanto?' ( it's not much ), which is followed by further compliments on the part of the interlocutor and it serves to extend the interactional sequence (Listen to a compliment between two Mexican students). Thus, complimenting represents one means of reinforcing the links of solidarity and affiliation between interlocutors and a way of smoothing conversation. to top

Listen to Compliments and Compliment Responses